GAELIC SPORTS WORLD Issue 28 – June 20, 2015 | Page 57

BY JOE TROLAN JUNE 18, 2015 GAA coach and sports academic, Joe Trolan, examines player frustrations and coaches responsibilities beyond just winning games. fit all approach in dealing with players who are frustrated will not work. It is no use for a coach to tell players to “get over it” or “grow up and deal with your problem.” Every GAA season we witness players leaving panels because of a lack of playing time or some other reason. At the inter-county level, these players give an immense amount of commitment and of course want to play, but not everyone can play. Unfortunately this also happens at underage levels as well. As a coach, you are in the difficult position of trying to win, teach, and dealing with playing time. So how do you deal with frustrated athletes so that instead of quitting the panel they push themselves to improve and challenge the “starting” team? UNDERSTANDING WHY? The first question a coach has to ask – is why are my players frustrated? Is the frustration down to disappointment in not playing as much or because of mistakes being made during practice or in games? By understanding the reasons, coaches can begin to help limit the number of underage players from dropping out of the sport altogether. How then do you encourage your players to reevaluate any decision to quit? NEGATIVE The first action is to not be negative toward them. At the senior county level, if a player quits because of a lack of playing time then someone of similar talent could most likely replace him or her. Yet, at the underage level this is relatively much harder to do. Therefore, taking a one-size Likewise, if an athlete is frustrated during a practice, it may be easy to punish them by making them do laps or sit out the practice but this doesn’t solve the issue of why they are frustrated. Rather, it is imperative to understand the issue behind the frustrations such as overwhelming pressure to be successful, unattainable expectations, or even your own coaching methods. As a coach there is nothing wrong with your players challenging themselves to become better but it is your job to ensure that the players do not have a rigid idea of what success in a team is or to be successful as an individual. As the coach you should be the one who is constantly reminding athletes that while frustrations are part of life, it is important to make sure that the players do not focus on negatives of their expectations or beliefs and focus on what they can do better. HELPING PLAYERS In sport people will always become upset, angry, or annoyed at not starting on a team, at making a mistake in practice or games, and at being defeated. The job as a coach is not just about winning games but also helping player’s deal with, and control, negative situations. Encouraging athletes to have achievable goals and measurable outcomes in sport is the first step in helping to develop positive expectations. In sport, not everyone can win all the time and not everyone can play all the time – as a coach the emotional intelligence of a player is just as important as his or her tactical intelligence. 57