Flashmag Digizine Edition Issue 70 June 2017 | Page 36

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they are rich are also those who have fewer problems in finding themselves Companions and keeping them. While the rich and beautiful men, will find companions who generally leave them, because they are not feeling safe if they are more materially independent the feeling of losing one day this man so beautiful and rich haunts their relationship.

For teenagers love relationships have a different meaning, the carelessness of tomorrows and the lack of responsibilities puts them in the logic of everything is possible. They love to believe that love can transcend all differences. Physical beauty is one of the fundamental elements in the formation of couples. The most favored by nature live their successes as due to their personal qualities. The less seductive ones rarely come to admit why they cannot flirt.

According to a recent study made by the CSA research, the relation between beauty and women remains very personal. Far from clichés about beauty as a seduction tool, women are beautiful above all ... for themselves, to be self-confident (50%) and secondarily to affirm their style, personality (26%) and Only 16% to please. It is a constraint for only 7% of them. On this question, there is a strong generational divide: 46% of 18-24-year-olds say they have confidence in themselves. Same for 63% of those aged 65 and over. Young people see their image more as a weapon of seduction: 21% of 18/24-year-olds and 25% of 18-34-year-olds do their best to please.

However, a gulf exists between the sexes in relation to the perception of the female body. Asked about this, psychologist Danielle Desjardins argues that women who do not consider themselves as pretty as their spouse says do not have a high self-esteem. They are judged solely based on aesthetic standards. "These women forget that their lovers perceive their beauty according to an emotional, cognitive and relational dynamic," not just physical.

The last paradox of beauty and romantic relationships remains the logic that the most beautiful girl in the world will not attract the men who suit her if she neglects the flourishing of her personality. On the contrary, she tends to attract men who are primarily interested in her physical attributes and not in her internal qualities. Conversely, a woman whose physique will be less dazzling, but dotted with strong and balanced personality, will meet much more easily men who will appreciate her to her true value.