Fit to Print Volume 23 Issue 2: June 2014 | Page 31

We’ll Try Anything Once! continued from page 17 T I call this place "The Cocoon". It's like this place apart where people come and are transformed. here are those in the FI family great happiness and benefit. That's why I, who, like a number of our and all of us really, can say truthfully, "We veteran once." I personally can will try anything members, can correctly trace it identify to that first class. Waiting all back themselves as having been here since the very beginning. The on line for Spin and taking that leap. That difference is that was 10 years ago. for some, “the beginning” means not just the beginning And then, once I'd entered into the class culturegym,was able, the of the and but also and comfortable, taking beginning of their lives! advanced kids, this Mari For most classes, I'd take Cor's class. or twoso meant an hour And it a impressed me how she day in the nursery while knew everyone's name, mom worked out. But and Erin Boyle, Jourdan for was so encouraging, even when she was Brown and Kelsey correcting you. You Peacock, whose parents understood that it was were employees of FI, for your benefit. It was growing up “fitness” never, like, "Oh no, she's was their out. Don't calling me life. They call spent hours never felt me out!" You everyday at the when Cor addressed bad gym together, alternating between you directly...called you the You would think and out. nursery and their appreciate how moms. Bonds like that wonderful and supportive are not easily broken, she was. “Three Amigas” and the It was sometimes tough to to remain like sisters Dave believe that in a packed this day: room she'd even know your name. Yet she did! Frances Jourdie: My earliest All the time. memory of the gym DP: One thing that's definitely occurs while always stayed with me we were when first from backstill onI Main Street. 2004 that joined inThis was before there had been any impressed me was the expansion. The gym was excellence of the staff. I still very to observe happened basic with Jen visitors coaching DiPalma entering and seeing the a treadmill. someone onwall with the She was talking the clothing, the little Amanda member through the and desk, the big room, routine, giving the back, the nursery in visualizations be where which has to during the hardest part memory my earliest of the run, and I thought, "Wow, occurs. We were there she's just so hours a day, probably 8 committed to that person." It just every day, with maybe struck me at the time 1/2 hour away from the and has remained with room for lunch. What me ever since. It's just I remember most is the one example of howthe constant planning and plotting on their trainers kind of take their clientsof our escape from the nursery. the finish was backs and help them get to Each day line. like an episode of Rugrats. And doing FV: When I first joined, I had been one of the main destinations of and I distinctly Hot Yoga and Vinyasa Yoga,our plans for escape was the bathroom, which was remember my very first non-yoga class, which was Carol's rebounding class on a attractive because it was anywhere but Monday. And itself... Likeoff in my corner, the nursery there I was, we were gonna’ laughing hysterically because this freedom. somehow flush ourselves out to class was so muchwhile, they justwhat I hadletting After a the opposite of stopped been doing to that bathroom. They put a room us go to the point in the quiet yoga limit andtrips to the bathroom. They caught on on environment. There was loud music, and a lot of that our constant bathroom to the fact energy and activity...it was intimidating but a whole lot of fun. And requests were just excuses to get out of from that day forward, I have found myself the nursery. responding to the classes, effectively to the Erin: The bathroom, I had been doing exclusion of the thingsand the Massage Room, I'm We would escape there. before.too.all about the flow of the class, and the intensity of it. I started taking Cor's classes, and just as Mari said, she learned my name and never forgot it, and called me out, but never in a way that was remotely embarrassing or uncomfortable...the fact was, you were left wanting to make sure that in the next class, you would do a little bit better, and Cor would notice (she almost always did!) and you knew you were getting better. Of course all along, as you are taking these advanced Cor and Kelly classes, you never stopped thinking, "OK, when is this going to be over? Can you please end this now?” One time I was so frustrated that I grabbed an orange juice and sat in the café on a couch. "Oh man," I thought, “I so want to be one of those people who can get through the entire class!" It took a little time, but now I obnoxiously position myself right up front just so I can push myself harder with no distractions (LOL)! Fitness Incentive is so much about the intimacy, and feeling as though you belong to a really special club—not just a "health club" but the kind of club that satisfies on so many different levels. Fitness, of course, but also mental, emotional, social...I'm so devoted to it and it's such a part of my daily and weekly routines that I call it my "work." My husband will ask me, "Did you go to 'work' today?" It's the kind of place that just makes you want to show up and be here every day, because you're held accountable by so many people who know you and know your name and see you in class every day. You want to go and you want to see those people—every day. To mutually confirm that you are there, that you are giving your all. As opposed to other gyms I visited where nobody knew your name and the atmosphere was so much more...sterile and corporate. DP: I had a membership at another gym, a corporate chain, for a short time. The vibe was very different. A lot of the members seemed to spend a lot of time checking one another out, whereas at Fitness Incentive there's much more of a "getting to know one another" sensibility. Here, you feel as though you're part of a group of like-minded and mutually supportive people—a community. There, you felt as though you were in a kind of fishbowl, yet there was no real interaction, even in small group training settings. People kind of came in, did their thing, and left. Small groups at Fitness Incentive almost become like little families who get to know one another in ways that transcend the immediate demands of the workout. People get to know each other better, and look out for one another. AP: There's also much more of a family atmosphere of Fitness Incentive. You Summer 2014 FIT to Print never get the sense that you are in a "meat market" or muscle-head environment. Nor have I found a clique-ish, catty environment either. A lot of families—whole families—moms with children, brothers and sisters, husbands and wives…they are all here, often together. And even the guys here seem to be mostly husbands, and fathers, and brothers…not meatheads but regular, decent people! It's definitely refreshing knowing that you can work out comfortably and relaxed without having to be concerned about being ogled in your tight spandex pants while you're bending and stretching. FV: I used to belong to a lot of different gyms where the population was kind of dominated by meathead-type guys, and Fitness Incentive is absolutely nothing like that. I never feel intimidated here; never feel like I'm being “checked out.” MN: By the same token, even though the population is mostly women, it isn't as though they are out there lifting "girlie weights." The women who are out on the floor lifting—a place where you might feel intimidated at other gyms—are really pushing heavy weight. They're serious about what they're doing, but the environment is never one of judgment, but one of empowerment. This has always really impressed me. You just don't have the sense that there are, sort of, "territories"—spaces for men and separate ones for women. Fitness Incentive women are tough! The four of us work out together often. We all do Power X Fit together, Amanda and I are partners in Jump and Drill, Fran does jump and drill... DP: We work out together as a small group, but will also pair off, with two doing one thing and two doing another... FV: We'll come in and take a class together or do strength training together. AP: And we've taken this group concept into this year's Fit for Summer contest. Mari and I were in a previous contest together— DP: —and by extension so was I, because they were eating so healthfully that I had no choice but to eat that way too! FV: I call this place "The Cocoon". It's like this place apart where people come and are transformed. I'll bring my mom here and my stepmother, who are both fairly active, and they will be, like, "Oh my gosh. This place is amazing!" All these women…a lot of them are mothers, a lot of them have been doing this for many years, and they are just so amazingly fit. Such tremendous strength and endurance...they inspire you. They inspire you to be like them at some point. AP: Fitness Incentive has changed my life for the better 100%. If I go back just 10 or 12 years ago, when I was in high school, and I think about how I would skip gym class, and couldn't run a mile, was not active at all and would scoff at the idea of exercise, and then contrast it with today...I exercise every day and feel badly if I miss a day. I absolutely love it. I've made the best friends. Fitness Incentive has definitely become my lifestyle and I expect it to remain my lifestyle going forward. And for that I'm super thankful. 31