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May 2017 FireNuggets, Inc Take good care of your people. Again, this is pretty simple and straight forward with copious Invest time and energy in strategic personal and professional relationships. Relationships that are amounts of common sense. “No so fast…..). Lead by example. Put the (shined) shoes on the other formed and nurtured in the military can, and often are, lifelong and pay benefits in future business foot. What would you expect your leader(s) to do if roles were reversed? Simply said, if you take care of careers. I’ve personally benefitted from the people I served with in Vietnam and met afterwards which your people, your people will take care of you. Be consistent, fair and hold everyone accountable and has paid me many dividends. That I’m a Veteran, coupled with the unique reasons I was medically that includes yourself. The leader drinks from the ‘canteen’ last. The leader eats last; goes to bed last; retired, has also helped me survive and thrive. Boiled down: it’s all about building a network and is the first one up and in the ‘office’ in the morning and is the last one to leave at the end of the duty cultivating the network; building trust and relationships. Where’s there’s no trust, there’s no day. In the military, the duty day never ends. The true leader knows the names of the people who relationship. clean the building and makes sure they know how important they are to the mission. You’re not a king, you’re a leader; no task is too great or too small that you wouldn’t do it or haven’t done it yourself. “Mother Teresa did not become famous by caring just about herself.” Manuel Corazzari Gather a diverse teams and people to get a broad range of input and perspectives. My own experience and many of my active duty and retired military cohorts and friends have shown that military training taught us the value of working with diverse individuals and teams. This helps diffuse what I call the “Rice bowl” paradigm where people have their heads down and only focus on what’s in it for them (me) “WIFM” and view others with different experiences and input as, gasp, outsiders who will upset the “apple cart.” “When asked if my cup is half-full or half-empty, my only response is that I am thankful I have a cup.”- Anonymous By Firefighters, For Firefighters “You show your vulnerability through relationships, and those feelings are your soft spot. You need to have a soft spot.” Victoria Pratt Have the willingness and ability to listen to others. Incorporate as many others opinions, as feasible. First, seek the opinions and feedback from your staff. An effective strategy: get-out from behind your desk, leave your office and walk around the organization. That means not only location where you work but all the other locations, as well. Make eye contact. Ask a question and then be prepared to listen…really listen—make and retain eye contact with the other person. Have a note pad and take notes. Notes taken and then insure you close the loop with those who offered opinions and feedback. Best result: close the loop in person or with a personal note signed by you, not from another staff member, to thank them and include the status of their opinion or feedback. “After you hear and listen. First, must come desire. Second, must come willingness. Third, should come understanding. Fourth, should come progression and with progression will come more understanding.” - Hyrum Yeakley ! of 28 15 !