Do you get where I am going here ? You have to get intentional about learning your husband . Become an expert in the subject of Mr . { Insert Husband ’ s Name Here }. You ’ ll use this expertise to become his “ suitable helper ”.
Suggested Next Steps :
• Take notes ( literally in your phone , little notepad ) when he tells you what he likes ... listen .
• Pay attention to his routine , what he buys , orders , wishes he had , shows interest in .. write it down .
This is not a one time “ upgrade ” process . Growth needs to be ongoing if we want to have a marriage that stands the test of time . As you both grow and experience new things in life his preferences will change and with them your duties . As a wife you have the power to change the climate of your marriage . Look at Eve , while she didn ’ t wheel her power with wisdom she still had a great influence on her husband . How will you use your influence and power ?
BONUS !: Enjoy , Enjoy , Enjoy
You ’ ve done all the background work , the research and laid the foundation ... now it ’ s time for your husband to enjoy the fruits of your labor . Use the information you ’ ve learned and put it to good use . Start cooking those favorite meals and doing those favorite things .
Get intentional about the love and respect you show your husband . Get a calendar and / or a planner and write down the things you plan to do for your husband . This way if you need to order something or get a speciality item ordered you have plenty of time .
Don ’ t worry about being on the giving end either , this is going to bless you more than you realize !
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