haviours are a complete waste of time and energy . They do nothing for you but create stress , disappointment , and often problems if your partner finds out about your lack of trust . If you go looking , there ’ s a great chance you ’ ll find something you don ’ t want to see . This stalking behaviour also creates problems in the relationship because if you do find something , bringing it to your guy ’ s attention will just anger him because you ’ re showing you don ’ t trust him to behave as he should in the relationship . If you always find yourself looking for incriminating information , it ’ s time to evaluate your relationship and whether it ’ s worth being in .
Avoid social networking drama .
You ’ ve seen her . She ’ s the one that posts all about the breakups , and the women her man has cheated on her with . She posts vicious messages subliminally ( and sometimes directly ) to the ex or boyfriend . She argues back and forth with any female that she thinks may want her man / ex . This drama is in no way attractive , and it not only makes you look bitter , but it also makes you extremely unattractive to any one that may be interested . No guy wants to date a woman that will publicly humiliate herself and him , or put their business out for the world to see whenever she gets mad . Nothing positive comes from engaging in drama publicly . constantly brag about how great their man is , what he does , how he never cheats , etc . Most of the time , women that feel the need to continue to tell the world how great their situation is are being untruthful and doing damage control . This is a common sign of unhappiness and / or boredom in a relationship . True happiness needs no audience . If your guy is treating you well and you ’ re happy , there ’ s no need to always shout it from the mountaintops … others will see it on their own . This behaviour not only makes you seem unhappy and secretly miserable , but it is also a magnet for women that may be interested in the guy you ’ re dating . Sadly , there are women out there that don ’ t respect other people ’ s relationships and marriage , and to hear you bragging about your man will only make them more attracted to what he could possibly do for them .
Be smart when social networking . Remember , it ’ s only for entertainment , so use it as such . Don ’ t let the need for public approval and validation ruin your chances of a great , healthy relationship .
Stop the bragging , it has the opposite effect .
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