Faith Heart Magazine Prophetess Trish M. | Page 10

EXPRESSIVE SKILLS Many children with special needs are now branching out and broadening their horizons.  They are being mainstreamed into curricular activities, community events, faith-based encounters with Christmas plays, Girl Scouts, Boy Scouts, etc.  Therefore, we must know the 5 basic rules to assist the child in ensuring their positive involvement and active participation. Rule #1:  Don’t Yell at the Child When Giving Directions Often times, people resort to yelling and/or utilizing an increased audible voice when they see the child struggling to implement their presented instructions.  STOP.  The child is not deaf or hard-of-hearing.  They simply have problems processing the verbally presented information and correctly executing your request(s).  Instead, use fewer words and rephrase your instructions.  Also, include visual prompts as a form of assistance to help the child implement your command.  For example, if your request was to “Decorate your flower and punch a hole in it so we can hang it from the ceiling.” This statement may be too wordy.  Instead, provide 1-step instructions and say, “We are going to decorate our flowers.  Or else ask, “Would you like to color or draw on your pedals?” Then proceed to the next step.   Rule #2:  Provide Tons of Verbal Praise   Children with special needs are often  FHM 10