P . Sloan Joseph : Describe how these scriptures have helped you in your life or what these scriptures mean to you ?
Mary Sloan : Both of these scriptures are constant reminders of how God orders our steps in life through success and challenges . As humans , especially in my culture , we have been told by others ( parents , friends , society ) what our success should be . Do not believe that all things are evidence of weakness or failure , but evidence of why we need / should depend on God , and His power , daily in our life . I am constantly meditating on this and ask Him everyday to make me stronger in this area of life . He will guide us to our predestined place , regardless of what we feel or think , or how bad we might resist / fight His will .
P . Sloan Joseph : What do you currently do to nurture your relationship with God ?
Mary Sloan : I am always evolving in my relationship with God . I claimed the role of “ worshipholic “ at one time . I was at every worship service , on every choir and participated in every ministry . I learned that some of the most powerful ways God teaches you about yourself and your relationship with Him is how comfortable or uncomfortable you are with telling others about HIM . This includes sharing your most intimate hurts and disappointments with those he leads you to talk to . He will put you in a place where you will testify to the most uncommon person of how His blessings and power have allowed you to overcome life ’ s challenges . I ' m still growing in this area .
P . Sloan Joseph : Describe a difficult time in your life . How did God bring you through this situation ?
Mary Sloan : One of the most difficult times in my life was when I was laid off . It was an awesome job opportunity , paid a salary that allowed me to live comfortably and take care of my daughter . I purchased a townhome three years prior and was planning to send my daughter to one of the most prestigious private HBCU ’ s in the country . I was a Patient Revenue Manager for a large educational health institution . It was a wonderful opportunity , but God knows His child and knew what was best for me . The experience humbled me and taught me that just because you do right , does not mean challenging things will never happen . I was unemployed for eight months . This experience brought me closer to God . I had no other choice but to trust His plan for me . After bouncing back from this experience , I began to live life ; traveled , and spent much needed time with family .
P . Sloan Joseph : How has God helped you in your relationship with your daughter ?
Mary Sloan : It is amazing how people can see God in you , even when you have not verbally expressed your belief or your relationship with HIM . I have scriptures posted on my computer monitor for two reasons : 1 . To remind me daily of his promises and who I represent . 2 . To show others that come into my work environment , RESPECT WHOSE I AM !
P . Sloan Joseph : How would you explain God to an unbeliever ?
Mary Sloan : I am a firm believer in that actions speak louder than words . I am constantly praying for discernment and clarity . With these gifts , you will be given the specific words , and the appointed place to connect with those that are ready to HEAR what you would like to share . I am very creative when I talk to others about God . You know He can be a comedian at times , and laughter is not only an easy way to connect with people , but is also an effective way to convey His message of life .
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