Faith Filled Family Magazine October 2016 | Page 84

become loose, as problems always arise within any human relationship, but they will not easily separate because He is the joining force. You may be thinking, “You do not know us, though, we are too far gone.” Regardless of how much has separated the two of you, nothing can rise against the one who stands between the two of you. Let me say that again: No matter what has separated you, He stands between you. God is the glue of any everlasting relationship. No matter the time spent, feelings changed, or trust lost, when taking authority in the name of Jesus over a relationship, you give room for the Restorer to weave His authority amid your relationship again. As He continues to work within our hearts and minds, we can see the loose two stranded braid becoming strong as the third intertwines its love among the two. This is not limited to just walking in church together on Sundays. Sitting there right next to each other though feeling as though you are miles apart, only to return to your car, return to your home to find that nothing has changed is not true progress. That, my friend, is called lukewarm. Let’s put it this way. Let’s say you had a goal of losing five pounds. Would you achieve this goal by periodically going to the gym, maybe spinning on a bicycle without breaking a sweat, or if you went consistently and elevated your heart rate to practice a good, thorough exercise. Which option would better achieve your goal? You see, you are missing pieces. Just as the person who only fights toward achieving the goal by minimal efforts, the couple who only enters a church facility on Sundays does not rebuild their relationship. Jesus is the purest gentlemen. He will not invade your relationship, He must be invited. Therefore, we do not merely visit His house to fix what needs it in our homes, rather we invite Him to invade our homes so that His presence is filled wall to wall. By taking authority back into our lives, back into our relationships, we are seeking Him wholeheartedly, together. This looks something like praying together, reading God’s word together, loving God more so that you can love each other best. Luke 10:19 states, “Look, I have given you authority over all the power of the enemy, and you can walk among snakes and scorpions and crush them. Nothing will injure you.” Before Jesus left this earth, He placed His authority within our hands. We have the authority of the everlasting King, though we let it lie dormant due to our lack of placing our efforts in the wrong place. We put all our efforts in the two, and not the three. The missing piece to your seemingly hopeless puzzle in your lost love is not the loss itself, it’s the need for God to be at the center again. If you are seeking, seek harder. Just when you think you’ve begun to understand Him, there meets the realization that you have not even come close. The closer the two move toward Him, the closer you will move toward each other.