Faith Filled Family Magazine July 2016 | Page 19

observe your daily pursuit of God and His righteousness. Let them see the passion of your love for Him, as demonstrated in obedience and surrender (John 14:15). Let them see how you walk out the lifelong commitment to developing the fruit of the Spirit of God (Galations 5:22-23). 2 Observe the gifts your child demonstrates. Romans 11:29 tells us that the gifts and calling of God are irrevocable, meaning that your child has gifts from God that will be evident, regardless of their submission to Him. As a child, I had natural compassion and fairness in judgment, to the degree that in 2nd grade, friends would call on me to be “the judge” and solve disagreements on the playground, an early indicator of one of the gifts God placed on my life. Make a note of the natural strengths and capabilities your child displays and encourage these things. They will lead to a reveal of the call of God at ing emotional maturity. Teach them healthy conflict resolusome point. tion, delayed gratification, and Guard your child’s soul. the process of working towards Whether your child is a ter- a goal and following through. rific two-year-old or a fierce Your child’s emotions can be fourteen-year-old, he is learn- their best asset or their worst ing and discovering who he is in enemy to walking in the fullness relation to God and his world. As of their God-given destiny. A selfadults, we can easily forget how willed child is an undisciplined overwhelming it can be to grow adult (Proverbs 15:32). Anchorup. Guarding and protecting ing the soul is obedience and their souls (mind, will and emo- submission to parental authortions) is a two-fold task, which ity in childhood will allow your begins in prayer and concludes growing child to have the proper with teaching and demonstrat- context and training to submit to 3 the refining process as mature in Christ. 4 they Pray for your child. Faith is an active process of extending our confidence and hope in God’s promises for our children (Hebrews 1:1). Faith is not wishing or unsure, but it is grounded in God’s Word. This is the foundation of releasing the power and grace of God into your child’s life. With authority and faith, pray daily over your child, that