er , we live redeemed lives that are joyful rather than sorrowful . When we surround ourselves with healed people , we can extend reconciliation and restoration , resulting in hope . Hope births joy !
What advice can you offer those who have friends or family walking through the devastating loss of a child ? Are some things more helpful or hurtful than others ? I have found the fewer words , the better . Sit , listen and provide for basic needs . At the time of a tragic loss it is best not to share your own personal story . The depth of crisis is also not the time to say , “ Something good will come from this loss ” or “ God needs another angel in heaven .” It is helpful to field phone calls and help manage the media if it is necessary . Generally , families need to assign close friends with tasks so the family doesn ’ t have to make too many decisions or talk with too many people . Helping make travel and other arrangements for out-of-town family is a big relief . Encouraging family to rely on hospital personnel for bereavement resources can be a terrific emotional support .
What are a few ways believers can fulfill God ’ s command to care for the widows and orphans in their community ? A wonderful way to support widows and orphans is simply with your time . You can also do so by spending time with the families of widows and adoptive families . Time is of so much more value than just sending a check , and it is a great way to make a difference in the life of a lonely person . Asking questions about their needs , such as , “ What do you need from me ?” is a good first step . Find out if Safe Families operates in your state . If not , start a local chapter !
Orphans need spiritual families as well , not just “ forever families .” Be a mother or father , or a sister or brother to a lost child who needs transportation , tutoring or a fan at their athletic games !
He Knows Your Name Ministry works to honor every child with a name in life and dignity in death . What are some ways people can partner with your ministry ? People can reach out to me through my website . I would love for them to tell me their story ! So much healing happens through testimony and the revelation of redemption . Also , please send me information about what ’ s happening in your local news . People find it funny that I don ’ t read a lot of news , but I don ’ t . I count on my community and communities around the country to be my eyes and ears on the street to keep me informed . Get involved with your local Safe Haven Law advocates . We need to educate young people about the law and support local organizations that are doing grassroots work to protect life .
How can people find out more about He Knows Your Name Ministry , especially families suffering the loss of a child and are in need of assistance ? My website is the best way to connect with me . I have connections in many parts of the country I would love to share with underresourced families . Facebook messenger is also an effective way to send me a story and need . There are great resources for bereavement in most hospitals , and I recommend families reach out to their local hospital for support and counseling . Sadly , grief counseling is not always a strength of the local church .
Learn more about more about He Knows Your Name and Linda Znachko at www . heknowsyourname . org , on Facebook ( HeKnowsYourNameMinistry ) and via Twitter (@ LindaZnachko ).
We would like to take the time to thank Linda Znachko for her taking her time to speak with Faith Filled Family Magazine . This book is a must read for anyone suffering from loss or know someone that may be suffering . This book would make a world of difference in coping .