Faith Filled Family Magazine August 2016 | Page 84

look back again if he didn’t give me the strength to. It is ironic that I am writing this article on July 4th because in reality, I have found my independence through God. He set me free on Dec. 26, 2007. That was my Independence Day! That was the day that changed my life forever! Of course there is a whole lot more to my story than this, but I wanted to hit some points to show that addictions are a family problem not just an addict problem. Addictions affect the whole family not just the addict. I hope and pray that people from all sides of addictions can read this article and realize there is hope. If you are an addict, there is hope. If your family member is an addict, there is still hope. Never give up hope until they leave this earth, because you just never know. ried for over 13 years and stronger than ever. We have a 4 ½ year old son who is everything to us and we both know that if God didn’t step in with my addictions I may be dead right now and we would not be together today. We would also not have Lil’ Chris, so there is life after addictions. Once you have been clean for a while, you start to see the world differently and you start to see a world of possibilities instead of life through an addict’s eyes! One of our passions in life is to see marriages heal. That is why we feel that God healed me so that we can eventually speak on this topic to churches and conventions. That part is in our future. God will always use your hard times to change the lives of others. We know that is where God is leading us in this day and time. Doors haven’t opened up yet for that, but we know one Sandy and I now have been mar- day they will. When they do, we are willing to walk through those doors! As I said, there is a whole lot more to my story. I left out so many things but I think you get the point. Chris Benton Web: TheChrisBenton.com FB: @TheChrisBenton Twitter: @TheChrisBenton I am Chris Benton. I run a Christian Blog and am launching a marriage ministry because God’s purpose for mine and my wife’s life is to help marriages. I have been writing for several years now and have found a great passion in writing, so because of that I am writing a book on my 19 years of addictions that I finally walked away from over 8 years ago! I have also started creating short video messages.