Faith Filled Family Magazine August 2016 | Page 67

Make sure you remind them of these things often, so that they begin to really internalize them. This is the best thing you can do for your child. By doing this, you are filling him or her up with positive emotions to override his or her negative ones, and you are creating a safe environment for him or her to grow and thrive in. Remind your child early and often that he or she is loved by God and by you. Divorce is a terrible evil in our world today, and too many people suffer because of it. If you find yourself going through a divorce, please know that God is there for you. He will hold you every shaky step of the way. He loves you, and He will never abandon you. Because of this, He will give you the strength you need to model this love toward your children. Though it will be hard, you can help them through this, just like God will help you. Divorce may be part of your and your child’s story, but it doesn’t have to be the whole thing. Katie Hamilton is a high school English teacher from Arkansas. She hopes to encourage people to grow closer to God through her writing. In her spare time, she enjoys reading, writing, and spending time with her husband, family, and dog.