Faith Filled Family Magazine August 2016 | Page 46

Should I Pray or Do By Tammie Croft Y ou’ve done all that you know to do. You have tried to rectify every wrong that you can think of, and he still wants the divorce. You feel devastated and you really don’t understand how after thirteen years and two wonderful children, he continues to walk away from you. You find yourself begging him to tell you what you need to do differently or say differently. You may even agree to change the way you are living if that’s what he wants. You find yourself in a state of mind that you never dreamed you would be in; the state that is willing to do whatever it takes to keep him at home, even if it is wrong. After you have exhausted every effort that you can, you then begin to realize that this nightmare is about to come true. Now what? You ask God to show you how to pray in order to save your marriage, because you hope that this is merely a test. “Surely He will not allow this to come to pass when He hates divorce”, you think