Ewya Magazine Ewya Magazine Issue 1 June 2016 | Page 12

A Natural Lift Research shows that 40% of the male population suffer from a low libido. When you partner is suffering from erectile problems it can cause many problems in a relationship and leave both partners with self-esteem issues. Science is now proving that eating the correct foods can boost the libido. For a woman when her man can no longer “get it up” or “keep it up”, it can cause relationship and esteem issues. She may start to doubt her own attractiveness. Thoughts like he is no longer attracted to me or no longer finds me sexy, start to go through her mind the longer the erectile issues continue, the worse the woman feels about herself. Many women even consider the idea that he is seeing someone else, and that’s why it is not working the way it did. The woman will then stop trying to initiate sex for fear of been reject. For a woman, if you can’t give your man a lift you start to take the blame on yourself, there must be something you are doing wrong or something wrong with you. Most women take a long time to realise the fault is not with them but their man. For a man, his hard on is his pride and joy and the ultimate sign of being a man. When his equipment starts to falter and, fail., it can be absolutely devastating. So often there first recourse is to blame their lady. Who is already blaming herself? He is very embarrassed by the failure to launch. When the problem persists, he starts to feel ashamed of his failure as a man. He is humiliated. Sex at this time is at a very vulnerable stage, the lady is feeling unattractive, and the man is focused on his flagging member. The more he focuses on it, the softer it becomes and it is another dismal failure. Both partners can start to form some very negative belief patterns at this stage. For the man, he can become too scared to try again in case it doesn’t happen and starts to avoid sex, and the woman is just feeling worse about her appearance and appeal as a sexual woman and is less inclined to even want sex. 12 - Ewya June 2016 Both parties are now in a state of anxiety over the act, and neither wants sex anymore. Each time there is a failure in the bedroom it reinforced the individual’s beliefs about their own issues. The periods between intimacy become longer and longer. It is said, that sex is only 10% of a relationship but if there are problems in the bedroom, it becomes 90% of the problems in the relationship. Sexual intimacy is vital to the success of a relationship. When a couple makes love, a hormone called oxytocin is released. This is the same hormone that is released when a woman breast feeds a baby. It is a feel good hormone and it serves to bond the mother and baby. The same hormone can bond a couple together. Which makes them like each other more and overlook each other’s faults more when they are having regular sex. When a couple is not bonded, every little thing will irritate them and fights will happen over all sorts of small silly things. Numerous things can affect the libido from stress to clogged arteries. Weight and exercise can play an issue. Low testosterone levels may also be a factor. Eating natural foods can help with the libido, but if the symptoms persist medical advice should be sort. Libidio Enhancing Foods Banana Rich in Bromelain & vitamin B which improves your sex drive. Basil Boosts sex drive, increase fertility and circulation. Celery Boosts androsterone which is an odorless, aphrodisiac secreted in male perspiration.