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cover story Haley Cairo is what’s known as a “fitness influencer.” She chronicles her fitness and beauty routines, how she eats and takes supplements, and also offers plenty of tips for staying organized and being a businesswoman. youtube.com/ haleycairo instagram. com/haleycairo/ instagram. com/haleshealth/ When you think of social media “influencers” the stereotypical “millennial” might be what comes to mind – entitled, taking the easy way out, not wanting to work, everything handed to them. However, Haley Cairo is none of those things – a great group of friends. She began every adversity, challenge, obstacle, wearing makeup and it made her every “no” – she turns it into fuel to feel prettier, but she still struggled do more, be more, and inspire more. with feeling good about herself. She Haley’s journey really began as continued playing sports through a child when she went from tons of high school, and as she entered into room to play to a more sedentary eleventh grade, she found herself lifestyle with a fast food with a high school crush. diet to boot. Her mother As things progressed Research fell very ill in 2001, in the budding romance, suggests that leaving Haley’s father to Haley didn’t feel quite body-image take care of her mother, issues can begin ready to date. She was as early as 3 run their company single- staying out past curfew years old. If your handedly, and take care and breaking other child is making of Haley and her brother. rules here and there to comments about With dad running the feel accepted by her their body, don’t show, there was little crowd of friends. She dismiss it. You time for meal planning decided to back off of may want to seek or preparation, so the relationship, but professional oftentimes, he had to turn help in working from there, things got through to fast or frozen food as worse. The crush began self-esteem the solution for his family. spreading rumors about conversations as As time progressed, her, not just through well. Remember: Haley remained fairly school, but on the Girls aren’t the active through sports and internet as well. It didn’t only ones who play, but began putting take long before no one can have body- on weight and even she’d been friends with image issues. experienced some self- Listen to your was speaking much to boys, too. esteem issues before her and she began to middle school hit. feel isolated. It was at In middle school, this point in time that Haley’s body image issues became Haley began dealing with anxiety worse. She didn’t feel like she fit in issues. The stress of school, her well and while she played sports, peers not being inclusive, and her she felt that her friends were all persisting body-image issues had much smaller than she was, and she Haley looking for