These behaviors may help him to bed
insecure women; however, if he doesn’t
become self-aware and shift both his
verbals and non-verbals in professional
settings, he will not experience the same
level of success in that arena.
Here are some examples of how he’ll
come across:
>> A dominant body posture will tell
business associates that he’s a shallow jerk.
>> Inappropriate touching and similar
courting behaviors are sleazy in the
wrong settings.
>> His verbal language should spur
people to give him the “Yes.” Controlling
comments, in a professional situation,
force the “No.”
Awareness of self, in conjunction with
an awareness of the body language of
others, can help anyone to reach their
goals in any situation. We all use masks –
we’re all the same people every day in
every circumstance, but we use masks
(dictated by self-awareness) to help us to
reach our goals.
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