DIVORCE 411 APRIL 2015 | Page 9

D I V O R C E relationship that much easier. Isn’t that what people want? To stop arguing, stop the bad feelings, stop the insinuating, the backhanded compliments or anything else that comes from a difficult divorce? It starts with forgiveness. Stick with me here. Forgiveness isn’t calling up your ex and saying, “I forgive you.” It’s far from that. Forgiveness is releasing you from the bad feelings. It’s about you, not about your ex. It’s about no longer allowing those bad feelings you have towards your ex to have power over your life. Forgiveness doesn’t mean you’ve forgotten ever