Dignity - Youth Voice: Issue III | Page 4

page 4 The Prophet and Human Dignity Ismail Uddin Prophet Muhammad not only respected but also elevated the dignity of all those who were fortunate to meet him: Muslims and non­Muslim. I will illustrate three incidents when he had done so. First it was with his caretaker and slave Barakah, who he had inherited from his parents. She took care of him when he was a child and stayed with his household when he was an adult. He freed her on the day of his marriage with Khadijah, and later arranged her marriage with a man from Yathrib, the city soon to be named Medina. She lived happily and had a son named Ayman, after whom her nickname became Umm Ayman. Eventually she came back to Mecca and started living with Muhammad’s (pbuh) household once again, either because she was widowed or divorced. Prophet Muhammad had treated her as a family member and did everything he could to take care of her, and this was before he had become a Prophet. He would call her “Ummi”, my mother, and said of her to others: “She is all that is left, of my family.” He elevated her status once again after the message of Islam was revealed. Along with Umm Ayman, another ‘slave’ lived in his household, Zayd ibn Harith from the Tribe of Kalb. He was given as a wedding gift to Muhammad (pbuh) by Khadijah at the age of fifteen. He was proud of his lineage but he was content with serving Muhammad (pbuh). After the message of Islam spread throughout Mecca, the Prophet said to his companions of Umm Ayman “Should one of you desire to marry a woman from the people of Paradise, let him marry Umm Ayman.” This had a great effect on Zayd, who was much younger than Umm Ayman, and he asked to marry her. This is the prophet uplifting and honoring what we would consider today to be the lowest of society. Social status meant little to the prophet. Human dignity meant everything. Another incident was with Abdullah ibn Masud, a man of short stature. He used to help out the Prophet (pbuh) in his day to day necessities. One day he was climbing a siwak tree and a gust of wind blew and exposed his thin and unimpressive legs. His friends laughed, but the Prophet asked, “Why do you laugh?”. They replied, “Ya nabi, look at his legs. They’re like twigs.” The Prophet said, “These two legs will be the weight of Uhud on the scale of good deeds on the Day of Judgement." The Prophet had such a deep impact on this man that much later on in life, Abdullah Ibn Masud (rh) would refuse to part with a copy of his personal Quran that the Prophet had taught him, despite Uthman (rh) explaining why he was burning unofficial copies of the Quran (so the Ummah would have one standard copy). Furthermore, Abdullah Ibn Masud(rh) was so elevated by the Prophet that he became a pillar of knowledge, so much so that this young man ­ a pious predecessor reflected ­ and Ali (rh) were the springs from which all the learned companions took. [He] said of her to others "She is all that is left of my family." A third incident I’ll mention is about Zahir (ra), who was repulsive in appearance and had a very low self­esteem. The Prophet always sought to uplift people and this incident illustrates this quality. Reported by Anas ibn Malik, “There was a man from the people of the desert whose name was Zahir bin Hizam (or Haram). And he was loved by the Prophet (pbuh) – He was also not of a pleasant (facial) appearance. The Prophet came to him one day, while he (Zahir) was selling his goods in the market and embraced him from behind, so that he (Zahir) could not see who it was. continued on pg 6 ... A MUNA Youth Publication