Dialogue Volume 11 Issue 2 2015 | Page 44

practice partner In fact, Dr. Overgaard says what family members respond to is the very directness of the information. “They see we’re not hiding anything from them.” Dr. O’Brien agrees that blunt talk doesn’t increase worry for families; to the contrary. “Parents say it decreases their anxiety, because they see the thoughtfulness and begin to understand how we make decisions. We let them in behind the screen.” The Mount Sinai NICU long had an open door policy for families to be present at rounds. The difference? “Now we actually want them to be there and they have an active role to play,” says Dr. O’Brien. Before, the team would ask parents at the end of rounds if they had questions or concerns. “Often, they would just say no, because they were intimidated or didn’t want to interfere,” says Dr. O’Brien. “Now we ask parents to start the rounds. They tell me they feel a lot more involved.” Having family members aboard hasn’t slowed the rounds, another concern. “The point of the exercise isn’t to change how we do things,” says Dr. Overgaard. The team wants families to get the gist of the situation, and can always fill in more details later. If anything, “The rounds can be faster by having parents there,” says Dr. O’Brien. “There are huge efficiencies from having parents who know the baby and who are the continuous caregiver. They have the background that team members may not have. The parent at the bedside is often the first to notice subtle changes in the baby.” During the rounds the information flow is two-way, 44 Dialogue Issue 2, 2015 Communication is care Dr. O’Brien, who has trained nine centres in Canada on FIC, says the approach used in family rounds should remind all doctors of some communication fundamentals. Look people in the eye. Acknowledge them. Don’t bypass the patient by focusing just on the problem. She says that sort of communication doesn’t just support care; it is care. “It’s from building relationships that we can make decisions that work,” says Dr. O’Brien. She says one doctor who participated in the FIC model “felt his care became more human, more rounded.” For Dr. Overgaard, the family rounds show how transparency breeds trust. Even when you have to discuss the elephant in the room, you can do so in a way that’s humane. The rounds experience is a reminder that clear and direct communication – at all times and perhaps especially when someone is critically ill – is at the core of care. “In general, we can underestimate the lay person’s capacity to understand and assimilate what’s happening,” he says. “The more open and honest you are, the better.” photo: D.W. Dorken Dr. Karel O’Brien, a staff neonatologist at Mount Sinai with the team often gleaning vital insight from family. Dr. Overgaard mentions one heart attack patient. Normally, they would take her to the cath lab to unblock the artery, but she had many comorbidities. On rounds, her son described how she had longstanding edema with no defined source. “We had a group discussion, and that family member participated in a way that changed the care direction,” says Dr. Overgaard. “Rather than go to the cath lab we opted for a non-invasive initial approach. That was partly related to the stories the son told us.” Having family on rounds can also promote better care by these caregivers. Dr. O’Brien describes one mom who was intellectually challenged. There was doubt about how much she could participate in rounds. Yet she took in enough information to be a more effective advocate for her baby, and learned to talk to health-care professionals, Dr. O’Brien says: “By being involved she was actually able to take her baby home with support.”