Darkside
Day-to-day living is not much different
for us than for any couple. We pool our
finances into a household account. The
‘dungeon’ has a budget that includes
everything from paying the electric bill
to buying new shoes. The ‘dungeon’
has chores that must be done daily or
weekly. No one likes to mop the floor
but everyone gets that opportunity
occasionally. We have an understand-
ing that those who work inside the
home have just as much value as those
who leave the house to earn a pay-
check. Again, making the ‘dungeon’ the
common goal erases most conflict.
This is the part of any discussion I
give where I am asked about jealousy
between the girls. ‘How do you decide
which one to sleep with?’ Is the
question I am asked. What a silly
question! I have two girls that love
and care for me. I have two girls that
I love beyond all reason. We sleep
together and why would any one do
it differently? Each night I fall asleep
between the two women who love me
most in this life. We have our place in
the bed. If one were missing, it would
create a void that would keep us awake
all-night. your questions and give their views.
There are resources available to anyone
who takes the time to seek them. All
you need to do is answer one question
in your own mind. ‘Why?’
We have reached the point where I am
asked, ‘How do I go about setting up
a poly household?’ I have to ask why
you want a poly household. If you are
seeking the wonder of two or more
writhing naked bodies in your bed,
save yourself some trouble and rent an
adult video. If you believe you can live
and love more than one human being,
if you have faith that love can grow in
your heart exponentially, if you realize
that any relationship is work, then you
are almost ready. Before you proceed
further, are you seriously willing to
devote a minimum of 110% to your
‘dungeon’? ‘I believe
you can
give your
heart to
more than
one’
I am always available to counsel those
who are genuinely interested in Poly-
amory. My girls are willing to answer
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