Crown of Beauty Magazine The Love Story Issue | Page 55

Infatuation is defined as a "foolish, all-absorbing, short-lived passion." In other words, infatuation fades and then eventually dies. Then he moves on to another girl and repeats the same cycle of infatuation.

The Bible says real love never fails. It isn't self-seeking either. The infatuated frog is with you for how you make him feel, not because he wants to honor and serve you as Christ calls him to. So, if you don't want to end up being dumped, I highly suggest hopping over this frog.

2. The Rebel Frog

Have you ever dated a bad-boy? I have; too many times. These frogs tend to be on the rougher side. They're considered cool because of their "I don't care what anyone thinks" attitude. They also have serious issues: a severely dysfunctional family, anger problems, a drug addiction, anything very problematic that will eventually taint your relationship.

Many of us girls get entangled with these kind of guys because of our nurturing nature. We greatly desire to "help them." At least that was the case for me. Since these guys are not yet healed by Jesus, however, they are walking around with a double-edged sword sticking out of their hearts. You will eventually get sliced by their pain! Since his heart is so broken and messed up, he cannot possibly love and treat you in a healthy way. Don't waste your time trying to heal him with your love; only Jesus can do that in a person's life. You'll just end up breaking your own precious heart.