Creative Child February 2018 | Page 8

special Feature Tell them you love them and why. It is likely your children know you love them but how often do you tell them? Saying I love you to your child has powerfully positive effects for your child. Try not just saying you love them, but tell them why. “I love you because you are so fun to be around.” or “I love you because you care about others.” Words of affirmation are powerful tools to give our kids the self confidence they need to face the world and they are a great way to bond with your child. Similarly, snuggling, hugs, kisses, pats on the back, or even tickling and wrestling give your child the physical affection and bonding they crave from their parents and creates a strong bond. 7