Over time his attitude improved and his grades
rose. He even seemed more rested and reported
better sleep. It was time to make the decision to
return his electronics. He had put in his time,
improved in the areas he had been asked to, and
earned their return. Shorter time limits were set
and they were handed over. Since that day I have
noticed a difference when he has gone over time,
even accidentally, and he realizes the hold they can
take on you. I also notice that when the warning is
given to set them aside he does so more willingly
because he has become less reliant on them for his
entertainment.
We now have a constant wealth of information
at our fingertips and access to social media for
keeping up family and friends. But at what cost?
I am ashamed to admit that I, too, am addicted to
screens just as much as my son is. They affect my
attitude and distract from my responsibilities.
Most of all they take away from time spent with
family. They make me impatient and I feel a loss
when I don’t have them in the palm of my hand.
What fun would I seek out if I didn’t have my
phone? What would I create? What hobby would
I rediscover if I put my phone down? What would
rejuvenate me and elevate my mood if I had time to
fit it into my day? What about you? What would
you do if your screens were removed?
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