Pretend play offers kids the opportunity
to learn problem-solving and conflict
resolution skills – for example, when both
children want to be the same character and
they must work out a deal, or they must
work together to determine how to defeat a
foe and save the day. As they act out their
scenarios and create their imaginary worlds,
they must learn to think critically and
carefully. They may need to make up rules,
make decisions about roles, and overcome
“problems” as in their made-up scenes.
Research shows that dramatic play helps
children emotionally as well. Not only does
it reduce stress and allow them to have
fun, but it plays a very important role in
allowing them to express both positive and
negative emotions and learn to self-regulate
and control impulses. Taking on the role
of someone else for a while helps children
develop empathy, another needed skill for a
successful life.
Remember these rewards the next time
your child asks you to brandish a pretend
sword to slay a dragon or to fly in an
imaginary airplane to have tea in France.
Pretend play isn’t just another way for kids
to fill their time but it’s a crucial element
in their development which helps them
learn and hone the skills they will use for a
lifetime.
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