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We fail to understand that we are people
first and when we make sacrifices, we
cannot sacrifice ourselves completely. We
have to make time everyday to focus on our
needs, independent of any workplace
responsibility, school responsibility or family
responsibility. That's because our identities
cannot and should not be formed by our
professions, marriages, relationships or
children. Of course, they influence our lives
- but we cannot be dependent on them to
define who we are. If we allow this to
happen, we would not only be short-
changing ourselves but also the very people
and institutions we serve because we aren’t
bringing 100% of ourselves to the table.
So let's reflect on the importance of
balance. It's critical and non-negotiable that
we determine our personal balance and that
we enforce that balance with people we
interact with. This will ensure that
everyone's needs and responsibilities are
met, without anyone having to sacrifice
themselves, their personalities, their hopes
and dreams. It is also worthy to regularly
review ‘balance’ because it changes with
each arena of life that we enter into. What
may have worked last year may not work
this year.
2019 is merely a measurement of time.
‘Time-out’ is a misunderstood
concept. It doesn’t mean stepping out of
your life to relax. It means maintaining your
personal balance, which promotes good
health and success. It may involve reading a
book, praying, visiting a spa, gardening or any
other activity where you are pursuing your
own hobbies and simply being yourself. You
don't have to be apologetic or feel guilty
about having aspirations outside of work or
family life. And as such, society needs to stop
imposing the idea of confinement on people.
Greatness is available within each of us and
we should encourage each other to make an
impact on the world through living the best
version of our lives that is possible.
The only way you will find change is if
you initiate it. You need to change
yourself to change your life. Choose you.
Choose happiness. Choose success.
Choose balance.
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