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Women Leadership
BY HAWA CHARFARAY
CEO & Founder Training Excellence South Africa and Middle East
Business Executive Coach, Trainer & Motivational Global Speaker.
TEDx Lyttleton Women Speaker
Become a more balanced, focused and engaged leader
G enerally, balance is seen as scaling
between work and family - when a
person is able to sufficiently meet
family commitments and adequately
perform responsibilities at work. For
me, there’s one major issue with the
term work-life balance. First, the very
phrase suggests that work isn’t part of
your life; it’s separate. The majority of
our time is spent at work, so if we look
for balance all the time, it becomes
elusive and rarely attainable, which
means you already start at a
disadvantage. Second, the work-life
balance statement also presupposes
that you are merely coping, and most
women want to be extremely successful
at both.
Ultimately, it should be about a woman
being able to set boundaries and
become assertive enough to say ‘no’ to
areas that don’t affect her life in a big
or important way. There are times
when a woman will have to work really
long and hard, and neglect home and
personal life. And there are times when
she can choose to play hard and say
‘no’ to work. It all starts with a belief.
Some women believe it’s impossible to
be a good mother and have a successful
career at the same time. They believe
they could either be good at their job,
or at motherhood, but not at both.!
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But I believe you can be extremely
successful at work and be an outstanding
mother - and looking gorgeous at the
same time. I for one, had three adorable
kids with special needs who required
more care and attention than ordinary
children. But I still managed a successful
career, founded a company and always
made time to look gorgeous all the time.
We are all different though, so what you
choose as being most important, would
be totally dependent on what you value
and how you determine the worth of the
things that matter most to you.