Connections Quarterly Winter 2014 - Integrity | Page 22

S PIRITUAL DIREC TIONS: HO N O R AT S TA K E Continued from page 19 “ To the degree that we talk about honor rather than integrity, the wager rather than the goal, we are also talking about the external rather than the internal. ” versions, the “honor” of a degree). What the code is about— its telos, the thing being wagered for—is not honor, but (in a word) integrity, the quality of remaining still in one piece, despite the vicissitudes of life, of remaining true to one’s principles, and thus specifically of being blameless because one’s moral center is undamaged. As I said, it’s way too late to undo the metonymy involved in the way we use “honor” in these cases, but I do think it’s worth noticing its existence, for this reason: to the degree that we talk about honor rather than integrity, the wager rather than the goal, we are also talking about the external rather than the internal. To allow public reputation to be put at risk in this particular aspect of character formation is, at least, traditional. I don’t think that we mean, generally, for our students to actually make public opinion the standard for their actions, as though they would do only those things that would bring them honor. Indeed, most of us, I suspect, put a fair amount of energy into holding up the examples of those who acted virtuously when it carried no promise of honor at all, or even the risk of dishonor. Educators often quote, in this context, the aphorism attributed to South Bend Central High School’s most famous English teacher, John Wooden: “The true test of a man’s character is what he does when no one is watching”: but another of Coach Wooden’s attributed comments gets even more precisely at the distinction between integrity and honor—“Be more concerned with your character than your reputation, because your character is what you really are, while your reputation is merely what others think you are.” Page 20 Winter 2014 Continues on page 24 CSEE Connections