Compassionate Integrity Training CIT-Faciltator-Guide-2.1-Final | Page 85

C OMPASSIONATE I NTEGRITY T RAINING A S ECULAR E THICS A PPROACH TO C ULTIVATING P ERSONAL , S OCIAL AND E NVIRONMENTAL F LOURISHING 7. At the conclusion of the second round, say, “Find one more partner.” 8. After everyone has found a partner, reveal, “This is the bonus round. In the bonus round you are not allowed to use any of the answers you gave in previous rounds.” 9. Repeat the process from round one giving each partner one minute to answer the question. 10. After the conclusion of the final round, say, “I invite everyone to return to their seats, so we can debrief this exercise.” 11. Debrief the activity by asking the following questions: a. “What insights emerged for you during this activity?” b. “Did you notice a difference in your answers between the first two rounds and the bonus round?” c. “How about between the first and second round? d. “What does this activity reveal about our identities?” e. “How many identities do you think we have?” f. “How many of our identities are seen by someone when they first meet us?” g. “What might this activity show us about labels?” C ENTER FOR C OMPASSION , I NTEGRITY AND S ECULAR E THICS | L IFE U NIVERSITY | M ARIETTA , G EORGIA -78-