COMMUNICATION: How To Flirt, Start Conversations And Keep Them Going? In Depth Guide to Approaching, Flirting and Dating | Page 93

Not so Shy Girls:
1. Stare and Speak!
When you see a man you like, the eye contact rule still applies, since eye contact is the most powerful tool
when trying to connect with someone. However, if you are not that shy and do not mind taking a bolder step,
you can also speak to him as he walks by, or as you walk by him. You can flirtingly say hello in a soft voice
and smile as he says hello back, gently looking him up and down. This will make it obvious to him that you
are interested, without being too aggressive and over doing it- but definitely flirty enough!
2. Start Conversation
If you are willing to make the first move and
make your intentions even more obvious,
without actually throwing yourself at him, you
can start a conversation with him. Come up
with an excuse to talk, such as asking for
directions, an opinion on something- or even to
borrow his pen- whatever it takes to get the two
of you talking. If he is interested in you as well,
you will not have to work too hard, because he
will be friendly and flirty right back at you!
You two can talk and then take it from there.
3. Give or Ask for Digits!
Face it- if you just ran into this guy by chancethen there I a high chance you may not see him
again- unless one of you take a bold move. If
you do not have a problem making bold moves,
you can ask him for his phone number (if he
does not beat you to it first), or you could write
down your number and hand it to him with a
smile. If there really is chemistry between you,
then he will want to be in touch with you againas soon as possible!
Remember: Regardless of whether you are shy
or more aggressive, one of the most important
and most attractive thing a woman can do is
Smile! It gives a friendly vibe and shows him
that you are a happy, non-threatening flirting
woman. Plus, smiling brightens your face and
gives him a chance to see your real beauty!