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Mistake #6: Talking without intention
If you fail to plan, then you
should plan to fail. That
saying is as old as dirt -- but
it's true. So why would you
go up to a girl without an end
plan? I don't know either. Are
you after her number? Do you
want to give her yours? Or are
you propositioning her for the
evening…? No matter how
you slice it, you better know
where you are headed, or you
are going nowhere with her.
Don't just talking for the sake
of talking -- that's how you
end up at Mistake #4.
Solution -- If you want to end up getting her number, then you need to talk your way into getting it. It's not a
manipulation thing, but you need to work yourself into a place where it seems appropriate to ask (or to give her
yours).
Mistake #7: Don't know what to say
In reality, the other six mistakes never come into play because most men never talk to women
in the first place. They have no idea what to say.
Think about it. Knowing how to talk to women is the most powerful skill you could ever
learn if you want to flood your calendar with dates. You can't just walk up to a woman and
expect to kiss her, can you? You need to learn how to talk to a woman before you can make
her your girlfriend or "no strings attached" partner.
So why is learning to talk to women so important? Because women need to feel some
connection before they decide to sleep with you. And the only way to do this is by… saying
the right things.
Solution -- Simply put, knowing how to talk with women is like having a cupid's bow and
arrow that you can freely "aim and fire" to captivate any woman and make her hypnotically
attracted to you… anywhere, anytime.
In sum, you can't sidestep the flirting part, yet it is where most men make mistakes. The
unfortunate circumstance is a constant merry-go-round of rejections, or worse, could-havehads-but-chickened-outs. Master the art of flirting and you could see an increase in your dates
with women.
See Flirting as an art
Flirting is an interesting art that's used to generate attraction and interest from the opposite sex.
It's the middleman between having a normal conversation and asking her out. Why do you
want to flirt with a girl? The best reason is so that she can become at