COMMUNICATION: How To Flirt, Start Conversations And Keep Them Going? In Depth Guide to Approaching, Flirting and Dating | Page 76

Mistake #6: Talking without intention If you fail to plan, then you should plan to fail. That saying is as old as dirt -- but it's true. So why would you go up to a girl without an end plan? I don't know either. Are you after her number? Do you want to give her yours? Or are you propositioning her for the evening…? No matter how you slice it, you better know where you are headed, or you are going nowhere with her. Don't just talking for the sake of talking -- that's how you end up at Mistake #4. Solution -- If you want to end up getting her number, then you need to talk your way into getting it. It's not a manipulation thing, but you need to work yourself into a place where it seems appropriate to ask (or to give her yours). Mistake #7: Don't know what to say In reality, the other six mistakes never come into play because most men never talk to women in the first place. They have no idea what to say. Think about it. Knowing how to talk to women is the most powerful skill you could ever learn if you want to flood your calendar with dates. You can't just walk up to a woman and expect to kiss her, can you? You need to learn how to talk to a woman before you can make her your girlfriend or "no strings attached" partner. So why is learning to talk to women so important? Because women need to feel some connection before they decide to sleep with you. And the only way to do this is by… saying the right things. Solution -- Simply put, knowing how to talk with women is like having a cupid's bow and arrow that you can freely "aim and fire" to captivate any woman and make her hypnotically attracted to you… anywhere, anytime. In sum, you can't sidestep the flirting part, yet it is where most men make mistakes. The unfortunate circumstance is a constant merry-go-round of rejections, or worse, could-havehads-but-chickened-outs. Master the art of flirting and you could see an increase in your dates with women. See Flirting as an art Flirting is an interesting art that's used to generate attraction and interest from the opposite sex. It's the middleman between having a normal conversation and asking her out. Why do you want to flirt with a girl? The best reason is so that she can become at