COMMUNICATION: How To Flirt, Start Conversations And Keep Them Going? In Depth Guide to Approaching, Flirting and Dating | Page 75

Mistake #4: Letting the conversation drag
Whoa! This is one of the most commonly committed errors by men -- talking too long
and trying desperately to keep this hot chick in front of you for as long as possible. Until,
of course, the conversation starts to lag and you find yourself toeing the floor in front of
you, repeating things that were funny at the beginning of the conversation, and then
finally the dreaded 10 seconds of silence before saying… OK, well I'll give you a call.
You know what I am talking about.
Solution -- When you get to the peak of a conversation, leave. I don't mean just walk
away in mid-sentence, but while both of you are talking and laughing, just casually look
at your watch and say something like, “Oh, sorry… I've got to meet a friend in about 10
minutes…” Note: Leave with phone number in hand (or at least make sure she has
yours).

Mistake #5: Sucking up too much
You're so pretty. I love your smile. Awwww… that's so nice, but she doesn't give
a damn. Interestingly, most women (especially the super-attractive ones) react
more favorably to teasing rather than sucking up. Sucking up doesn't give you the
backbone, and certainly doesn't exude the confidence you need to land the girl.
Solution -- Get a backbone and make this girl realize that she isn't going to bowl
you over with looks alone. Stick out your tongue, or comment on something in
her teeth. You give the impression that your standards might just be a little higher
than hers… she'll be intrigued to say the least… and she won't exactly know why.