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How to Read Male Flirting Signals
Not everything a guy does is a sign that he is flirting. This can
make it difficult especially when a man frequently exhibits
standard flirting signals. So, how can you tell if he is flirting or
not? Start by observing his behavior. Watch how he interacts
with other women and even other men. For example, do his eyes
light up when he looks at you or when he looks at every other
lady in the room? If he is interested in you, he will keep flirting
that day, and if he is around you often, in the days to come. So
stop and observe just a little before deciding whether to take
action.
Men’s flirting technique can be relatively limited. Fine: after all,
it’s the girl who makes the first move, though the guy might not
know it. With a fair degree of accuracy, you can guess a guy is
flirting from the way he’s clearly looking for someone’s
attention. The gestures he speaks to his friends with expand. He
exaggerates his body language – to a greater or lesser extent –
and his voice might sound as if he’s projecting to more than his
immediate group of friends.
Men’s flirting body language extends, during this initial stage, to
his detaching himself from his company. He’ll pull back from
them slightly, making sure that you have a good view. How do
you know it’s you? Well, has he looked yet? Briefly?
Occasionally? Surreptitiously? If not, he’s about to.
Once he has your attention – and through the point where you
actually meet and chat – his flirting signals do become a little
more subtle. Check for the following. Men: do this!
LoveToKnow Dating Tips
Don't Forget to Flirt Back
Being flirted with is lots of fun. If you are interested in him,
don't forget to flirt back. He won't know you're interested unless
you send him some signals of your own.
Body Language Signals
Many men will use one or more of these body language techniques. Sometimes he may not even be immediately
aware of what he is doing, but you will know if you’re observant. Remember that non-verbal communication is every
bit as important as verbal communication, especially if the guy is a little bit shy or at a loss for words when in your
presence.