COMMUNICATION: How To Flirt, Start Conversations And Keep Them Going? In Depth Guide to Approaching, Flirting and Dating | Page 29

BALANCING THE CONVERSATION

When your intention is to build a real, interactive, conversation, to which both parties contribute, you should not be
afraid to do more than your part at the start. Yet, it’s equally important to avoid personal interrogation. What you
have to do is to ask the right questions, knowing things will then almost always flow nicely.
When you meet new people, always try to keep the questions simple, fun and light hearted. The intention is to have a
good conversation and get to know the person beyond what they do for a living.

The best way to make somebody tell about his/her life, is to ask questions which will encourage them
to talk about themselves in “an unusual, quirky way”.
The best way to approach a conversation is to forget about flirting and seducing, but to see it as an opportunity to
learn. If you find out that your conversation-partner is interested in playing cardgames, and you are not, then why not
say - 'Interesting - tell me, what makes play