COMMUNICATION: How To Flirt, Start Conversations And Keep Them Going? In Depth Guide to Approaching, Flirting and Dating | Page 25

What follows are some opening questions.
It is a good idea to have more than one opening line in your sleeve. You may need the second to restart the
conversation if the first one does not trigger the conversation.

A safe way to open a conversation is asking a general question that is directly related to the
environment where you are, or making a neutral statement and end by asking the other person’s
opinion:
Hi, what’s up?
Hi, lovely day, insn’t it?
Hi, how do you like the weather today?
Bit crowded here, isn’t it?
Not much lively here tonight, eh?
Hi, how do you like the band?
Are you also waiting for the bus to …
Looks like the train is going to be late again.
Nice music, isn’t it?
Shopping time again?
Sigh … I shall be glad when this week is over! And you?

You can smoothen the approach with a neutral pre-opening:
Sorry, do you have a light for my cigarette?
Sorry, can you tell me what time it is?
A simple “yes” or “no” need not be a bad sign, but the longer and more
personal the answer, the easier it will be to continue the conversation and
the better your chances are. The best answer you can expect is personal,
informative and ending with a question.

Asking somebody for advice or help is another great way for opening a conversation:
Excuse me; What do you think of this t-shirt, should I buy it? I'm not very good at the whole fashion thing
I’m sorry, I'm new in town and can't find my way around; Could I have directions to the best ...?"
Do you know at wh