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8. Practice Anchoring
Emotions are associative; they get linked to particular stimuli, which
can later revive that emotion, even if there’s no logical connection
between the stimulus itself and the emotion.
Lots of people react very emotionally to certain old songs, because
they automatically connect these songs to a special moment in their
life. There are places, sounds, … that make us feel very good or
sad, depending on which experiences we associate them with. If
you had a truly positive experience with an Italian girl many years
ago, you may suddenly realize that you have become a lover of all
things Italian and maybe not even be able to remember or explain
why.
In exactly the same way, you can “anchor” strong emotions, that is:
mark them and in this way link them to a touch, to a specific motion,
to a painting, to the starlit sky … in fact, to anything at all.
The stronger the emotion felt when the anchor is set,
the stronger the response will be when the anchor is
“fired” later.
The more special and specific the anchor, the longer it
will retain its function.
Remember Jung’s Archetypes? People share a number of inner images. Some are universal, most
however culturally determined. The trigger words that activate these images are nowadays called:
powerwords.
When talking to women for instance, chances are you trigger a few emotions
when using these powerwords :
angels,
sacred,
magic,
fairy tales,
princess,
goddess,
paranormal
experiences,
the inner voice,
the inner self,
the pure soul,
biorhythm,
the true nature,
bigger whole
wholeness,
universal bond,
signs,
destiny, fate,
serendipity,
be in touch with
her path,
true passion,
be connected
connection with
self,
finding the One
it feels as if I loved you before I met you,
as if I have always loved only you,
as if I have been searching for you all my life
the other half
things that are
meant to be,
realization cycle
harmony, peace,
safety,
protection,
sharing,
trust
calm ocean
safe harbor
feelings that bridge
time,
more, deeper,
surrender = give in
to something
overwhelming, allenveloping
emotion,
emotional growth,
grow, learn
reaching deeper
levels,
enhance,
beauty,
adoration,
as if I love you since the dawn of mankind,
I will love you as long as I live … and more,
Just imagine feeling more intensely than ever before, feel this sense of overwhelming, irresistible passion… and then
realize you can feel completely one with yourself, with the universe … and even more.