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college connection PROFESSIONALISM anyone well served by a suffering veterinarian, or one who must abandon his or her work to seek care? Personal Resilience What is the answer? At the least, optimizing our own health and resilience practices is a choice that is within our control. Much has been written about the self-care practices that bolster resilience, including the PHP BASICS series. Resilience can be thought of as the ability of an individual to respond to stress in a healthy, adaptive way such that personal goals are achieved at minimal psychological and physical cost. Resilient individuals not only “bounce back” rapidly after challenges, but also grow stronger in the process. Good personal resilience practices promote civility. Here are some tips: • Eat regular meals whenever possible, and healthy snacks when meals must be skipped. • Get some exercise — even if that means using the stairs. • Cherish and protect time for sleep. • Practice mindfulness. • Spend time with friends, family and significant others. • Choose work that matches your temperament and values. • Take breaks to walk on “uneven ground” as often as possible, be it through vacations or other opportunities to enjoy natural environments. Healthy lifestyle practices for veterinarians translate to better care for patients. Paying attention to our own needs makes sense. Community A number of years ago, I was invited to a meeting of a small group of family physicians to talk about physician health and the Physician Health Program. They were all male (calling themselves the “Mensgroup”) and were gathering at the home of the member host for an evening of discussion and mutual support. and mutual support. Healthy communities are places where conflict, when it inevitably appears, is managed respectfully and effectively. Personal “check-in” took place over the meal and discussion followed. The discussion focused on topics of mutual interest, but favoured issues of personal importance rather than medical education. Over the years, they had discussed such issues as parenting challenges, loss and grief, resilience and coping, ethical investing, preparing for retirement, and so on. Professional communities of care are places where veterinarians can be genuine with one another, sharing their experiences as well as feelings of stress and vulnerability. Compassionate professional communities acknowledge the self-care needs of their members and know how to respond when someone is over-burdened or suffering. These are the kinds of communities where civility prevails. I really enjoyed my time with the group and told them so at the end of the meeting. “So why not join us?” was the response. I did. And I’ve been joining them every month since, in our homes, on vacations, and for our annual weekend retreat every September in Algonquin Park. These fellows have become valued friends and an important support of my own resilience. Civil professional communities are also places where systemic problems can be identified and confronted in a way that preserves the energy and dignity of everyone who works there. This is a matter of leadership, cooperation and imagination. The Culture Of Medicine It’s not just me. Professional friendships, alliances and networks keep you healthy. Veterinarians come together in many ways that foster support. Here are some tips in finding/forming a mutually supportive peer group: It is ironic that a profession so involved with healing and compassion can often be characterized by incivility. Whether it’s one veterinarian attacking another over perceived slights or un