Coaching World Issue 14: May 2015 | Page 10

From the Toolbox Listening to Yourself When I train coaches, I like them to engage with the question, “How does the client happen to you?” In other words, how does the client impact you, not just as a coach, but as a human being? Core Competency #5 Ability to focus completely on what the client is saying and is not saying, to understand the meaning of what is said in the context of the client’s desires, and to support client self-expression. Shutterstock.com/ A and N photography 10 Coaching World Active Listening