Keeping Our Children Safe
The following deals with sensitive issues on which not everyone will agree, and we recommend
that you use only what you find helpful and valuable. Our children are working in an industry
with many potential dangers. Using the lessons of those that came before us, we hope to help
parents and children safely navigate the road to success in their chosen field.
CHILDREN IN THE INDUSTRY
Never leave your child alone with anyone
you don’t know or trust, no matter how im-
portant or influential you think someone
may be. If anyone insists on being alone with
your child, feel free to walk out the door.
Teach your child to stay with you and make
sure she never agrees to go off with someone
without you.
girls as objects. Ensure the songs your child
listens to include clean and age-appropriate
lyrics. Also avoid over exposure to high fash-
ion model magazines and lingerie catalogs.
Teach your child self-esteem and to be
proud of who she is. Always encourage her,
support her, be kind to her, and promote the
positive aspects of her personality and be-
Always be present while your child is be- havior. When disciplining her, avoid being
ing photographed. Avoid photos that place condescending and try not to diminish her
too much emphasis on your child’s mouth or self-worth in the process.
tongue. Make sure she wears underwear, sits
with her legs closed, and keeps her clothes Be mindful of common phrases that may
reinforce stereotypes. Avoid using language
on. Keep photos simple and classy.
such as “silly girl” or “boys will be boys”.
Avoid making your child look older than While our daughter is a “beautiful girl”, what
she is. Dress your child in age appropri- if instead, we referred to her on a daily basis
ate clothing, keep exposed skin to a mini- as smart, capable, and talented?
mum, and lose the make-up. Generally, girls,
ages 7 to 10, should be limited to lip gloss Teach moral principles and ensure she
and a small amount of mascara. Older girls knows right from wrong. Will she do the
may begin to add eye primer and concealer. right thing even when no one is looking?
Make-up is only meant to enhance natural Serve as a role model in this aspect, because
beauty. Typically, if you can tell that a girl is our children are always watching.
wearing make-up, it’s too much.
Teach compassion, empathy, manners, and
Ensure your child has healthy and positive respect. Teach your child the value of good
role models. Avoid exposure to media with behavior and clean words. Teach her to show
over-sexualized performers or that portrays respect and to be kind, even when others are
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