Enlightened Boundary Setting
Less Drama ~ More Joy
Boundaries have a bad reputation. You have to set them. You have to get other people to stay on the right side of them.
The whole process is based on focusing on what you don't want and making sure that doesn't happen.
The problem is that this system is set to fail before it ever gets out of the gate. Deliberate creators know you get more of what you focus on. Focusing on what you want to prevent doesn't produce the desired result.