Caring magazine 46 Caring July 2017 - Page 22

Help and support Ask the expert Q In terms of emotional support, everyone reacts differently to bereavement, and there is no right or wrong way to feel. If talking about it, and about your wife, would be helpful you might find these suggestions useful: • you could talk to family/friends who knew your wife What financial help is there now my caring role has ended? I was my wife’s carer for five years, until she passed away last week. We had been receiving help through the benefit system, and now all of these benefits will stop. I am wondering if there is any financial help I might be entitled to, as I’m not state pension age but don’t feel able to return to work yet. A Jen from the Adviceline says... I am sorry to hear that your wife has passed away. Losing someone can be devastating, and if you were caring for that person the loss can seem even greater. In addition to exploring financial help, I wanted to briefly cover emotional support and practical matters following bereavement. People have to deal with lots of complex emotions and issues when the person that they are caring for passes away and the more information you have, the easier you may find it to navigate the weeks following the death. 22 • you could talk to other bereaved people via the Carers UK forum: • Cruse Bereavement Care is a charity for bereaved people: • your GP or carer’s organisation might know of local bereavement support: There are various practical matters that need to be dealt with when someone dies. There is lots of information on practical matters in our bereavement section In terms of your financial situation, any benefits your wife was claiming will have stopped now, however any benefits you are claiming as a carer might run on for a while. If you were receiving Carer’s Allowance when your wife died, this should continue for eight weeks following her death. As should the carer premium within means-tested benefits, if you were receiving it. After these eight weeks you won’t be able to claim benefits as a carer anymore. If you are on a low income you might be able to claim means-tested benefits like Jobseekers Allowance, Employment and Support Allowance or Universal Credit. The benefit system is complicated, so it would be a good idea to get a benefit check, to work out whether there are other benefits you can claim. The Carers UK Adviceline can carry out benefit checks. In addition to any means-tested benefits you can claim, as it was your wife who died, We’re here for you... Adviceline: 0808 808 7777