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Do Reach Out To Others Friends and family will always have your best interest in mind. Just like you have been there for them in the past, they will be there for you now. Allow your inside voice to get out of your head and have people that care about you there to listen and give you understanding and perspective. Do Find Others Who Have Experienced Similar Now I don’t mean have a pity party. I mean reach out to others who have made it through what you are going through so you can appreciate that you are not alone. You can also learn what worked for them and they can show you that there is happiness after tragedy. “THAT WHICH DOES NOT KILL US, MAKES US STRONGER.” – FRIEDRICH NIETZSCHE Do Ask For Professional Help Sometimes it can help to have an objective person, like a psychologist, provide a judgement-free, unbiased, and safe space for you to bring everything out in the open. He/she can help identify and diagnose any disorders; and provide you a professional treatment plan to help change your behaviors and perspective to maximize your Do Find Others Who Have happiness and performance. Experienced Similar Conclusion Now I don’t mean have a pity party. I mean reach out to others who have No matter what you have had to go made it through what you are going through, I want you to know that is through so you can appreciate that always hope and help. You can not you are not alone. You can also learn only survive, but, if you apply even what worked for them and they can some of the tips I’ve provided above, I show you that there is happiness after promise you will become even tragedy. stronger.