A big part of the MOPS program is having a mentor mom for each small group.
These women have survived. They have made it through the hard stage of
being a mom with young children. They know how hard marriage can be in
the midst of that. They have years of wisdom and experience to share that
we are eager to hear. I was blessed with a wonderful mentor mom. She had
this to say about joining MOPS, “I became involved as a mentor mom when
my youngest daughter graduated from college and moved to California. I did
not want to sit around home moping because all my children had grown up
and moved out of state. Not every mom who attends MOPS is a believer, so
there are often natural opportunities to share the gospel. I especially love the
one–on–one times I get to spend with the younger women. Almost every
year there have been one or two young women who have sought me out for
advice about marriage issues, family issues, financial issues, or other related
things. I have learned how to listen, to pray with those who are struggling, and
to share the things God has taught me through the years. Sometimes I have
been able to point them to others who could better advise and help them.”
We, as women, need relationships. We need time together to sit and talk. As
a mom with a young child, I’ve realized how incredibly important this is for
moms with young children. It can be so hard to find time in the midst of all
the laundry, errands, meals, cleaning, pets, family, etc, for us to find time to be
ourselves. For two hours, a couple of times a month, MOPS is that for me—
time for me to be me. It is a time to go eat some delicious food, have an adult
conversation that doesn’t involve the words, “Please don’t put that in your
mouth,” laugh and cry at all the craziness in all our lives, be encouraged by a
mentor mom, let someone else love my son for a little while, and learn how to
be the wife and mom God created me to be. My mentor mom summed it up
nicely when she said, “The young women in MOPS show me there is hope for
the future. We learn together how to become better moms (and grandmas).
The speakers we hear point us to God, and give us help in raising children and
grandchildren.”
Starry Eyed means looking for the
light even when darkness is enveloping.
It is an opportunity to hope recklessly
and to witness God’s presence guiding
things seen and unseen, comfortable
and uncomfortable.
When we reflect back over our lives, this
year is going to stand out. It will be
the year that we decided to live fully by
both sunlight and moonlight. Because
audacity is rising in the deepest and
wildest parts of our souls. And the best
part is, we will experience it all together.
Calvary
Meeting first, third, and fifth
Tuesdays, beginning September 20,
9:00-11:15am at Ada Bible Church
Knapp Campus
MOPS is a gathering place for all
women who are pregnant or have
young children (birth through Kindergarten) that offers connections,
community, resources and support.
If you would like more information
about MOPS or wish to register, visit
cal varychurchmops.wordpress.com. If you
are interested in becoming a mentor mom,
please email [email protected].
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