Bryn Athyn College Alumni Magazine Winter 2015 | Page 26

faculty spotlight psychotherapy techniques that can help them cope One of the ways Goldblatt Hyatt has begun better after the loss of a brother or sister. to “dive into” the process involves studying The book has become available at various the words people use in that tender, vulnerable libraries and school guidance counselor offices stage right before death, and how they impact and seems to be making a difference. Hyatt said, caregivers’ distress during the dying process. At “Ultimately, you write a book not to make money Bryn Athyn College, Goldblatt Hyatt is heading up but to make a difference. If it touches one sibling’s an innovative research project where her team will life, and they feel that they are important, and that explore this question, and more. they matter, and they will be okay . . . that’s the She came to the project through the linguist reason I do it.” Lisa Smartt, who has found a number of categories So how did Goldblatt Hyatt end up at Bryn of terms and words people use at the end of life: Athyn College? Through a man who would one day metaphors, complex sentence structures, ideas become her husband: Will Hyatt. about being “transported”, light and darkness, While they were dating, Will said to her, “Your gathering belongings and going on a great trip, work with dying children sounds really interesting. and some other universal themes. Goldblatt Have you ever heard of Emanuel Swedenborg? He Hyatt explained, “It seems that, anecdotally, when wrote about what happens to children after they people die, they speak in these terms. As I tried die.” So Goldblatt Hyatt to understand this phenomenon started reading Heaven and better, I began to also wonder about While they were Hell. She loved it. As she what impact this has on caregivers explained, “It was these tender at the bedside, and how we can help dating, Will said depictions of children and those loved ones cope better, too.” to her, “Your how they are taken care of in Having worked with so many heaven. Something about it people at the end of life, Goldblatt work with dying struck me as so true.” Hyatt is very aware of the “strange, children sounds She added, “I can’t explain confusing, often nonsensical words really interesting. it. From a scientific perspective that people use before they die”. of course, there’s no evidence, She explained, “Ultimately I was Have you ever but it hit me very deeply and drawn to researching the words of heard of Emanuel I thought, ‘this is something the dying and trying to understand I want to know more about.’” what we might learn to help the Swedenborg? The more Swedenborg she living.” read, the more she appreciated Currently, Goldblatt Hyatt is the teachings. “They felt real and they felt authentic working to ensure that various Bryn Athyn student and I fell in love with them.” She added, “My interns are involved with this research. She said, skeptical brain still causes me to question, but “Students are so interested! It’s great. I’ve had spiritually I feel very connected to this religion and nursing majors, English majors, psychology majors, this approach.” interdisciplinary majors – everybody wants to get Goldblatt Hyatt believes that this is a topic involved in the project! So, we hope to have lots where more research and understanding can bring of interns. One right now, a psychology major, is comfort to those witnessing a loved one pass helping me comb the research and literature to see away. She explained, “Sometimes the experience of what else is out there on this topic. We expect to being in the presence of someone who’s dying feels have interns doing all sorts of tasks on this project, frightening. It’s a very intimate process. We might training them to take informed consent and code want to run away from it. I want to dive into it and qualitative data, and help us write academic papers. explore it. I think that if we push through our fear So there are a lot of ways that our students will be we can be like midwives, easing the transition of able to help out.” those who are going on to the next stage. I think Goldblatt Hyatt has been working to ensure we just need more research and education to help that protocol for the research project is finalized people feel more comfortable.” within the next academic year, and she is also 26 | W I N T E R 2 0 1 6