Why You Should Not Play Mind Games With Your Ex If you are looking to get back with your ex, you should be serious about it. Don’t play games and string them along. That is the worst thing that you can do. Once you start doing that, they will figure that you are serious and want to make that move. However, that may not be what you have in mind. Some exes like to play games just to get revenge. Or they just want to put you on their little finger. So when they get through with you they can throw you to the curb. By that time you are hurt and angry. So you decide to get back at them by devising a plan. This is a foolish thing to do. Getting revenge on someone solves nothing and can lead to more frustration. It is important that you are serious about getting back with your ex. The emotions run high for males and females. It’s difficult when you break up from a relationship. Then a while later, trying to get back together is not a bed of roses. So when you decide you want to get back with your ex, you have to mean business. Besides, their feelings are probably still raw. They probably still have feelings for you, even though you’ve been apart for a while. Being in a relationship is serious business. Therefore, you and your ex must take it seriously. Don’t play around or string anyone along if you’re not serious about having a meaningful union. People start to get too attached and then all hell breaks looks when one of you wants to detach. Be sure that your feelings for your ex are real. Be confident that you want to make a go of the relationship again. If one of the parties is not serious about it, they need to be honest and say so. Playing games with your ex is serious business and can have serious consequences if you’re not ready to get back together with them.