Don’t give yourself up for him or her quickly. Then your ex will see you as an easy catch. After that, they may not be around much longer. Avoid being pushy. That can push your ex away from you for good. Take your time about getting back with your ex. If you rush it, you may mess up a potentially good thing. If they want you back, you will know it. Don’t fawn all over them trying to find out. Everything happens in its own time.