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Brahmcharya
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Dadashri: Yes, I will do the vidhi for you. Man is
responsible for increase in the increase in deceit of the woman.
Many men are unaware of their responsibility in this. Even while
he is following my Agnas in every way, what does he tell the
woman when trying to enjoy her sexually? He would tell her
that there is nothing wrong in what they are doing. So the poor
woman gives in and succumbs. She does not want to have sex
and wasn't going to do so. Yet her prakruti, her nature as a
woman is such that it is difficult for her to rise above sex, so it
becomes excited at that time. But who is responsible for this
result? The man is.
All these women have slipped into womanhood; become
women, because of this. If someone says something sweet to
her, she surrenders to him. This is very subtle. This is difficult
to comprehend.
It is only because of sex that one has become a woman.
Man has perpetuated the state of the woman in order to enjoy
sex. He encourages her, showers compliments on her and thus
corrupts her. Even when she may not have any beauty or charm,
she believes she has. What makes her believe so? She has been
brainwashed by men, into believing, ‘What is wrong in it?’ She
has not believed that on her own. Man has always told her,
‘You are very beautiful, there is no other woman like you’ and
she believes it. Man has kept a woman as a woman, in their
womanhood, life after life by this falsehood for his own pleasure.
And the woman believes that she is making a fool of the man.
A man enjoys her and moves on. You do not seem to understand
much, do you? May be a little?
Questioner : I can understand it completely. So far I
had the understanding that, men were free from any faults in the
matters of sex. But from today’s talk, I realize that men become
very responsible in this way.