Brahmacharya: Celibacy With Understanding(Abr.) Brahmcharya: Celibacy With Understanding(Abr.) | Page 95

82 Brahmcharya
Dadashri : If you want to keep a mistress , she should be officially registered . Then there should not be another one .
Questioner : You cannot register , because then she would ask for her share of my wealth and that creates endless other problems .
Dadashri : You have to give her , her share of your wealth , if you want a taste of her sex . Why don ’ t you wise up for this one life ? Why are you doing all this ? You have done this for endless lives . Why not behave for this one life ? There is no other choice if you want true bliss . Does a snake straighten up or remain crooked when entering its burrow ?
Questioner : It straightens first . I understood only today that it is wrong to have a woman other than my wife . Until now , I did not see anything wrong in this .
Dadashri : Nobody , in any of your past lives , has made you experience that this is wrong , otherwise who would fall into this hell ? This brings on hell .
After acquiring this Akram Vignan of ours , if you repent heartily then all such serious errors of your past would be destroyed . With true repentance even those who have not received this Gnan , will be freed , but not completely . For you , who have received this Gnan , if you continuously repent heavily , over all elements of sexuality , then you will be free from all your errors and their future consequences .
Questioner : Recently , you spoke about man becoming a source of encouragement for a woman perpetuating her deciet , in matters of sex . The advances of the man deceive the woman . In our worldly dealings , if I am at all responsible for worsening her original deceit that is part of her nature as a woman , please do a vidhi ( special blessing ) for me so that I may be freed from this responsibility .