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to a lower caste again. Look at these terrible dangers. The
woman of past life would become your mother in this birth, and
the mother of this birth would become your wife in your next
birth. Such are the horrible dangers of this sexual world. In
short, make sure you understand this. Prakruti, this complex of
thoughts, speech and actions, is not sexual. You are sexual. I
have said this before in a different way. But I have said all along
that only this is the one serious danger.
Questioner : Is there any danger if both the parties
consent to illicit sex?
Dadashri : There is a danger even if both parties consent
to it. What is the benefit if both parties agree? You will have to
go wherever she goes. You want attain moksha but her actions
are immoral, then what would happen to you? It would never
work. That is why all the scriptures say that; the right
discriminative approach is for the people to get married. Whose
home will be safe from stray cattle? Then how would there ever
be a safe side? Why aren’t you saying anything? Are you worried
about your past?
Questioner : Yes.
Dadashri : I will cleanse it all for you. All I want is from
is that after meeting me there must not be any more errors. I
have lots of solutions to free you from any of your past errors.
You can tell me in private. I will cleanse it all for you. Human
beings are prone to mistakes, especially in this Kaliyug. It is
impossible not to make a mistake in this Kaliyug.
There is no problem in divorcing one person and marrying
another, but you have to marry. There must be a boundary. One
without any boundary is like an ownerless bull. Then there is no
difference between him and the bull.
Questioner : What if one has a mistress?