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Brahmcharya
abrahmacharya is definitely there and the fifth violation is
parigraha (possession). Abrahmacharya is the biggest parigraha.
The Lord says that, there is liberation for the one who indulges
in rightful sex but there is no liberation for the one who indulges
in illicit sex.
These people do not understand much. They are like a
stray animal that is always looking for food ant tries to get it
from wherever it can. They will look for sex from where ever
they can get it. Are you familiar with buffalos and it’s relatives?
They would clean up anybody’s farm.
There are very few people who have an understanding of
the importance of brahmacharya. As long as they have not
tasted illicit sex they are relatively safe. As soon as they taste
it, they go wild. This does not suit us. Our Hindustan has such
spiritually developed people. We are all here for liberation.
Illicit abrahmacharya is such that a wife or a mistress of
one's in this life birth may become his mother or his daughter in
his next life. Such are the dangers of this sexual world. That is
why wise men practiced brahmacharya and got out of it by
attaining liberation.
[4] Sexual Loyalty In Marriage Is Brahmacharya
For the one who is married, I have made just one rule,
and that is that he must not look at any other woman sexually.
And if such a look happens, then do pratikraman and decide
never to let it happen again. Here is the definition of a married
brahmachari. He does not look at any other woman. He never
looks at any other woman sexually. He is free from sexual
impulses when he looks at any other woman. He is very sincerely
repentant if a sexual intent and look arises when he looks at any
other woman.
Three thousand years ago, in Hindustan, ninety percent of